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Married To A Married Man
My name is Ese, a 32 years old divorcee. Three years ago, I married a man I dated for 2years. It still seems unreal to me that I’m out of marriage so early. I had thought the man I’ll end up marrying will be my forever but fate would not let me have my wish.
I thought I married the most amazing man on earth. One I thought I knew in and out until I was proved wrong in the most terrible way.
I had a blissful marriage with my husband and I would talk endlessly about the love of my life to family and friends. My man was my pride and my joy. I loved him and was a devoted wife to him. We were happy or so I thought until the evening I got the call that changed my life forever. Here is my divorce Story.
I met my husband on social media. He is an American citizen who travelled once in two months to come or we would meet in another country he chose for vacation. I never had to ask for money, He provided everything I need, I even had his visa card and was sure he loved me.
My husband kept me quite satisfied as a wife. I had no complains whatsoever, even his constant trips to and from the US had no adverse effect on our marriage. I never visited him in America but an uncle of mine once did and my brother stayed with him for quite some time, none of them knew about the other woman until the day I got the shocker of my life.
The call that changed my life
It was on a Tuesday evening, 3years into my marriage with Edmund, a year and a half after we had our child, Ivie that I received an international call and on answering the call, the person on the other end introduced herself as Edmund’s wife who has three kids for him and she lived in Canada.
She said she recently found out her husband has been cheating on her with me. All these she said in a calm tone and without mincing words told me to stay clear of her husband and marriage. Stating that she has she has no intentions of sharing Edmund with another woman or leaving her marriage for me. Still in shock and disbelief, this woman sent me pictures of herself and my husband along with the certificate of their marriage.
I waited for my husband to come home and confronted him about the other woman. To my utmost disbelief, he didn’t deny the woman’s claims and instantly began to beg me for forgiveness. All I could manage to say after his confessions was “why?” Edmund said he knew it was greedy of him to have deceived me all along but he didn’t want to lose me or see me with another man and that’s why he married me. He had thought the distance between his two families would help make things right.
I have never cried so much in my life as I did that day. Then after reality had set in for me, I asked my husband what he would have me do. He said now that his other wife knows about me it would be hard to keep us both and she has the means to make his life miserable back in Canada.
Knowing myself to be fragile, I couldn’t stand the rivalry and battles to come if I am to remain his wife so, I filed for divorce immediately. It was a hard decision to make but I had to, for the sake of my sanity. Whatever feelings I had for my husband had quickly come to be replaced with bitterness and hatred. I just couldn’t stand the sight of him anymore.
The major problem now is that my husband, instead of granting me the divorce I asked for, said he would get me and our child visas for America and that once I get there, I will get papers and be on my own. The idea sounded cool to me until he began calling to make plans for us to be together again, giving me orders on what to do once I arrive the country. I realized relocating me would be his strategy to ensure he keeps me for himself, greedy man he is.
On a deeper thought, I blame myself for not paying attention to the signs however concealed they were. I was blinded by love. Now, how can I go on living with a man who hurt and broke me?
Please help me share and hide my identity..
We all pray to get married and live forever happy ending with the ones we love and care for but life takes it twist and moves us in different directions sometimes.
We never pray for divorce but in some cases it happens anyway.
Here is a divorce story of a lady who fell inlove with the wrong person and she'd love to share her story so we young ladies learns from her past mistake.
Note; That image up there is not hers but mine because she chose to remain anonymous, thanks for reading!
My name is Ese, a 32 years old divorcee. Three years ago, I married a man I dated for 2years. It still seems unreal to me that I’m out of marriage so early. I had thought the man I’ll end up marrying will be my forever but fate would not let me have my wish.
I thought I married the most amazing man on earth. One I thought I knew in and out until I was proved wrong in the most terrible way.
I had a blissful marriage with my husband and I would talk endlessly about the love of my life to family and friends. My man was my pride and my joy. I loved him and was a devoted wife to him. We were happy or so I thought until the evening I got the call that changed my life forever. Here is my divorce Story.
I met my husband on social media. He is an American citizen who travelled once in two months to come or we would meet in another country he chose for vacation. I never had to ask for money, He provided everything I need, I even had his visa card and was sure he loved me.
My husband kept me quite satisfied as a wife. I had no complains whatsoever, even his constant trips to and from the US had no adverse effect on our marriage. I never visited him in America but an uncle of mine once did and my brother stayed with him for quite some time, none of them knew about the other woman until the day I got the shocker of my life.
The call that changed my life
It was on a Tuesday evening, 3years into my marriage with Edmund, a year and a half after we had our child, Ivie that I received an international call and on answering the call, the person on the other end introduced herself as Edmund’s wife who has three kids for him and she lived in Canada.
She said she recently found out her husband has been cheating on her with me. All these she said in a calm tone and without mincing words told me to stay clear of her husband and marriage. Stating that she has she has no intentions of sharing Edmund with another woman or leaving her marriage for me. Still in shock and disbelief, this woman sent me pictures of herself and my husband along with the certificate of their marriage.
I waited for my husband to come home and confronted him about the other woman. To my utmost disbelief, he didn’t deny the woman’s claims and instantly began to beg me for forgiveness. All I could manage to say after his confessions was “why?” Edmund said he knew it was greedy of him to have deceived me all along but he didn’t want to lose me or see me with another man and that’s why he married me. He had thought the distance between his two families would help make things right.
I have never cried so much in my life as I did that day. Then after reality had set in for me, I asked my husband what he would have me do. He said now that his other wife knows about me it would be hard to keep us both and she has the means to make his life miserable back in Canada.
Knowing myself to be fragile, I couldn’t stand the rivalry and battles to come if I am to remain his wife so, I filed for divorce immediately. It was a hard decision to make but I had to, for the sake of my sanity. Whatever feelings I had for my husband had quickly come to be replaced with bitterness and hatred. I just couldn’t stand the sight of him anymore.
The major problem now is that my husband, instead of granting me the divorce I asked for, said he would get me and our child visas for America and that once I get there, I will get papers and be on my own. The idea sounded cool to me until he began calling to make plans for us to be together again, giving me orders on what to do once I arrive the country. I realized relocating me would be his strategy to ensure he keeps me for himself, greedy man he is.
On a deeper thought, I blame myself for not paying attention to the signs however concealed they were. I was blinded by love. Now, how can I go on living with a man who hurt and broke me?
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